What is Domestic Violence?

Domestic Violence, also known as Intimate Partner Violence (IPV) or battering, is a pattern of behavior where one person tries to control the thoughts, beliefs or actions of a partner, friend or any other person close to them. While the violence may cause injury, it does not have to be physical. Domestic violence also takes the form of emotional, verbal, psychological, sexual and economic abuse.  Warning signs, such as jealousy, name calling and possessiveness, are red flags for an abusive relationship.  For a detailed list, please visit: Warning Signs

The U.S. Department of Justice estimates that more than 90% of all domestic violence victims are female and that most abusers are male. Whether the victim is male or female, violence of any kind in relationships is unacceptable. Domestic violence affects people from every age, racial or ethnic background, religious group, neighborhood, and income level. Domestic violence also occurs in lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and same-sex relationships. For more info, click HERE.

While domestic violence has historically been viewed as an individual or private family matter, the reality is that the impact of domestic violence reaches much wider.  Extended familes, friends, schools, faith communities, workplaces and neighborhoods all suffer from this public health crisis.

But the good news is that Domestic Violence is predictable and preventable.  Given the statistics that one in four women have been beaten and/or raped in their lifetime (NNEDV), everyone reading this now most likely knows at least one person who has experienced a domestic violence situation.  As such, we all have a role to play in preventing the violence. 

What can you do?  Be vigilant. Know the warning signs of domestic violence, see the link above.  If you suspect someone may be involved in domestic violence, reach out. Let the victim know that they have not done anything wrong and that you want to help. Know the resources in your community and tell victims where to seek help. Speak out. Talk to your children and your family and your friends.